“History” – the thing we know we cannot change yet wish we could change because of how it shapes our options today.
It may not be because what happened in the past was bad either. It could just be us wishing that things were better. Come to think of it, the desire to better our standing is just us being human…as human as it is for us to try and fail miserably.
So how does this philosophical introduction tie into loans?
I’m glad you asked.
Imagine someone going through a break-up. During that time, things can be said, both well-intentioned and unsympathetic, to the person who is hurting. Not only that, in break-ups, friends take sides. The person hurting may want to change how the break-up happened as a result. But the fact is, the deed has been done and there is no taking it back. The same can be said about the events that lead to bad credit.
In every breakup, friends say things like…
“He wasn’t good enough for you anyways”
“I knew she was going to leave you eventually”
“It’s okay you’ll find someone better”
“It’s not your fault”
Sound familiar?
Well how about when mortgage repayments are not made because a couple are going through a divorce? Their credit histories will show the defaults, and this paints a negative picture. Not only that, their options for obtaining finance can seem few if any exist at all.
But perhaps the reason payments weren’t made could be because…
“The lawyer told me that I shouldn’t make any repayments until the court hearing”
“My husband emptied our accounts before leaving us”
“I was overseas when she decided to change all our passwords”
The list of reasons could go on. And with every bad mark on one’s credit report, there could be a list of good reasons why that mark came to be.
When someone finds themselves in a situation needing a loan to bail out of a bad scenario, or just wish they could start afresh once the dust of a bad incident has settled, their primary goal is to find someone who will listen to their story. Maybe their reason for being in this “hole” is an understandable one that they shouldn’t be penalised for going forward.
Now I’m not saying that all lenders are willing to provide hope to potential applicants with a “past”. Fact is, just as how there are people with bad credit because of reasons beyond their control, some people with bad credit put themselves there through bad decisions of their own. As such, most lenders are set up to view bad credit applicants as riskier applicants. This is the case where a bank is positioned to target the mainstream. They are unlikely to give you the time of day if you are a blemished applicant. It’s not that they don’t employ good people, as many banks have staff who are kind, share a moment and then politely and regretful decline to help. It’s just that their policies and products aren’t set up to help you.
If you are someone who has a blemished past, there is hope yet.
Lenders do exist who will empathise with you by hearing your full story to understand what went wrong. Some of them will even offer you a loan at interest rates close to what you get from a mainstream lender. Their aim is usually to find out if your bad credit mark has no bearing on your circumstances going forward.
I need to clarify that not all circumstances are acceptable and depending on the incident and documentation available to explain in detail what has happened, a case by case approach means that each lender will have a different take on how keen or able they are to help you.
So where does that leave you?
At Liveable Loans, if you require financial assistance by way of a loan but fear your past may disqualify you from one, we would like to offer you our ear to tell your story. Once we understand your situation, we will “workshop” your scenario with the multiple lenders on our panel who will listen to your story and seek to understand it too.
So, whenever you’re ready, feel free to get in touch with us so we can start helping you get back on track.